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Aug. 30th, 2006 01:49 pm
ajva: (real Anne)
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The BBC Have Your Say page is full of some particularly vitriolic stuff today, thanks to the "Should there be a fertility ban?" debate. Most people are dodging the question by saying the NHS shouldn't pay for IVF at all, but there's also quite a lot of nasty stuff along the lines of "How dare the NHS consider giving lesbians IVF when all they need to do is find a man?" and - what prompted me to post, in fact - "If obese women are too lazy to diet they shouldn't be trusted with a child anyway" sort of thing.

So, I just wanted to post this, for the record:

I cycle commute about 50+ miles a week and have been doing so for about four months now. Before that, I was a regular at the gym and before that I did kickboxing for a couple of years. I can honestly say that I am fitter than most people I know.

And yet most people, medical professionals etc, on taking one look at me, will think me lazy and unhealthy, because I'm fat.

Do you have any fucking idea how much that pisses me off? To be fit and fat, and for people to judge me so completely wrongly? Because make no mistake - they do. People are so wedded to the idea that it's impossible to be fat and fit that they just cannot believe it possible. The sneers of others take on a noisomely moralistic element that no argument will be able to meet, so ingrained is the "it's for their own good" notion.

Bullshit. It's *not* for our own good. It's the new class system. It's for *you* to feel better about yourself, you condescending, sneering, wankunworthy, unthinking, sheeplike accidental winner in the birth/culture double-lottery of body size. So you're within the first Standard Deviation - congratulations! You have won the right to look down on those poor unfortunates in the fat (har-de-har) tail 3 or 4SD out. After all, we all have full control over where in the distribution we come, don't we? Well, don't we?

And again I say: bullshit.



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Date: 2006-08-30 01:26 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] adjectivegail
Absolutely. I'd stand up and applaud, but I'm at work and they'd wonder what on earth. But, yes. Exactly.

Date: 2006-08-30 01:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] some-fox.livejournal.com
Whoop! Great post. You rock.

Date: 2006-08-30 01:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thekumquat.livejournal.com
Indeed.

I don't look at Have Your Say any more, ever since they abolished total moderation and made them interactive. Crap interface and mostly illiterate ill-informed opinions.

Date: 2006-08-30 02:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ajva.livejournal.com
Absolutely. I just felt that many of today's illiterate ill-informed opinions were even more nasty than usual.

Date: 2006-08-30 02:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emmy-mallow.livejournal.com
You beat me to it!
There are some really shameful comments on those pages today.

The story I heard, at 6am on the Today program, was that women who were extremely obese would be encouraged to lose weight before they would be considered for NHS IVF treatment where it was thought to be adding to or causing their fertility problems. And that all women, regardless of sexuality or marital status would be treated equally.

The piece on the BBC news website does seem to be rather inflammatory by contrast, as is the 'Have your say' item.

Also, bearing in mind that, due to the nature of it, IVF treatment is decided on a case by case basis where the physical fitness of both partners is generally tested / assessed as part of the process. Therefore, I'd hope that it would quite unlikely that people like us (fit but overweight) would be refused on obesity grounds.

Just my two penneth.

Date: 2006-08-30 02:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jhg.livejournal.com
Unless you've (pre-pregnancy) put on a ton of weight since I last saw you, you are in no way overweight.

Mind you some idiots on the Who board seem to think that Billie Piper is overweight!!!


J

Date: 2006-08-30 03:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emmy-mallow.livejournal.com
Ah now, you see technically BMI and height and weightwise, even at a pre-pregnant size 16 and physically fit, I was considered technically obese by some of the medical establishment! It's the old BMI chestnut!

My fitness drive was to get this body ready to carry a baby so no, I didn't put any on before the baby.

And Billie Piper is not overweight!

Date: 2006-08-30 03:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jhg.livejournal.com
Ironically, I'm celebrating the fact that I've managed to creep up to 10 st 13. I look forward to my BMI pushing the upper 'normal' limit!

Date: 2006-08-30 02:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jhg.livejournal.com
Yes I glanced at it too. It's good to be reminded that there are an awful lot of homophobes about, as in this crowd, it's easy to forget that.


J

Date: 2006-08-30 10:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dreamsewing.livejournal.com
So then are the NHS going to also withhold treatment from women who are underweight whose lack of sufficent cartilege and muscle mass would ensure them having to have 4 months bedrest to alleviate joint stress and who will probably have complications from massive blood pressure escaltion and bone marrow leeching from pregnancy?

grrrrr.
So here's to Fit & Voluptuous, with enough to maintain our body and life and enough to spare to support anothers!

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