quick note...

[ajva]

Just to say I've deleted my deadjournal. This is not meant to be in a spirit of rancour, but just because I've realised I can't use it the way I want to; it just winds people up. I tried to do a blanket vent yesterday to make myself feel better but it just pissed people off and they started arguing with me, quite understandably - but it rather defeated the point. I didn't want to disable comments, but what I really needed was a button that said "Allow comments that agree with you only," which of course is impossible. :o)

No hard feelings, I hope. Certainly none from my side.

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[sashajwolf.livejournal.com]

Fwiw, I've sometimes posted a request for comments of agreement only, and have found that people have respected it. Of course, the people who wanted to comment negatively may have done so where I can't see, but I don't mind that. Might be worth trying in future, if you still want to have somewhere to vent or post when feeling vulnerable or whatever.